The narcissist operates out of a me-first type of motivation. They know what they are doing is wrong, and they do it anyway. How many times have you found yourself telling the narcissist over and over again how they have treated you? Let me help you out. They know, and they do not care. I recognize this is hard to read. Consistent changed behavior is the greatest apology.
The top experiences you do not have to keep explaining to a narcissist are:
They are disrespecting you
The narcissist knows what they are doing. They will do it as long as you let them. You have power, use it.
How their actions hurt you
Narcissists are aware of how their behaviors impact you. Their actions are not done by mistake, even when they say it was an accident.
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GET THE DOWNLOADSThey know they are minimizing situations
Narcissists will downplay major problems to act as if the situation is not a big deal. This is done with the hopes of you dropping the subject.
What they are doing is wrong
If the narcissist did not know what they were doing was wrong they would not hide it. They know, and you know too. Trust your gut.
The narcissist knows they are putting you through a lot
Their need for what they want is greater than their concern for you. You don’t have to keep explaining to them how their actions affect you.
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FIND JOYHow their actions are upsetting you
The narcissist understands their actions will upset you. If you did the same actions toward them they would flip. You do not have to take it.
When they mess up big time
The narcissist will do something to soften the blow of their recent negative response. They do this to get you off course. Flowers, chocolates, and sweet words mean NOTHING to excuse abuse and disrespect.
How they are manipulating
Narcissists know they are manipulating situations to get what they want and they don’t care who it affects.
The narcissist knows the truth
The narcissist knows the reality of a situation. They will do anything they can to avoid taking responsibility and shame.
That you love them
Narcissists bank on your love for them to be the reason you give them another chance. You don’t have to keep giving chances. Give all that love to yourself instead.
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