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Narcissistic Abuse Recovery

What You Don’t Have to Give the Narcissist

Your efforts

Save your efforts for yourself. The narcissist knows you are invested. Their sense of entitlement prevents them from fully appreciating your efforts.

Instead put your efforts into loving, caring, and investing in yourself. You are worth it! You will appreciate what you do for yourself.

Your energy

This is NOT victim blaming when I say this, it is the straight truth. The narcissist will drain you if you let them. They will emotionally, mentally, and physically deplete everything from you. 

Narcissists have NO problem watching you exhaust yourself trying to love them. Even when you give all you have it will not be enough for them. Instead, invest in yourself. Do what’s best for you. You will not regret it.

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Your attention

It is helpful for you to put your attention and efforts into yourself. The narcissist has taken up enough of your attention. Paying attention to yourself allows you to heal.  Narcissists crave attention you do not have to give it to them. Let them get their supply somewhere else. Be so intentional in living your life, you don’t have time to give attention to the narcissist.

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Your time

No more second chances. This also means no more 4th, 24th, or 240th chances too. Believe the disrespect the first time. When you are dealing with a narcissist you must have firm boundaries. When the narcissist steps over your boundary recognize it. DO NOT brush off what has happened. Victims of narcissistic abuse tend to excuse the narcissists’ behaviors away. Later they regret not paying attention to their gut.  

The benefits of the doubt

Believing the narcissist is honest, deserving, or trustworthy without any proof is not safe. Be aware narcissists are transactional. They do not do anything for sheer good-heartedness intention. Giving the benefit of the doubt without any evidence has the potential to put you in some unhealthy spaces.

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